Let People Be Together

We've had almost a week to let the Iowa Supreme Court's ruling sink in, that Iowa's constitution does not prohibit people of the same sex from entering into a civil union. Both sides have had their say. So, now it's time to move on with the understanding that this is a clear example of the separation of church and state.

By that, I mean opponents to same-sex marriage should open their eyes. The ruling simply means that any two people, regardless of gender, have the legal right to make a civil commitment to each other and that this commitment brings with it all of the legal ramifications we've traditionally associated with marriage. It doesn't force any religious group to alter its rules to allow like-gender couples to marry within its foundation, whether that be the church's constitution, bylaws or building.

On the other hand, proponents of the decision should go about their business happily but quietly. If they want to marry in a civil ceremony at the courthouse or other non-denominational location, go ahead. If their church welcomes such unions, more power to that church and its congregation.

I know the fear among many church traditionalists is that this ruling (and subsequent action in other states, such as Vermont) will prompt gay couples who are members of the church to push for changes in the church. Be that as it may. It is a separate issue to be decided within the church, not by a court of law.

That's the thing. In the United States of America you have the freedom to believe what you want, to travel freely, to chose your friends and significant others, to worship the religion of your choice, to pray for peace or personal wealth, to wake up in the morning happy and without fear that  your rights will be taken away. And now, at least in Iowa, you have the freedom to make a commitment to the one you truly love.

Is this a great country or what?