Agreement possible if both sides want it

It is my opinion that language was designed to produce agreement. And, language must be accompanied by respect and honesty to obtain lasting agreement. Also, there must be a desire for an agreement for conversation to result in permanent agreement.

Now, I know “that a person convinced against his will is of the same opinion still.” And, that arguing to produce agreement is futile, I am not talking about those kinds of discussions. I am talking about a disagreement that needs to be resolved so necessary action can be taken to correct a bad situation.

People must be willing to critically examine their own position item by item and see if they stand up under attack by the other. Then areas of agreement will be found that should lead to action. Desire for agreement must be present.

What if after much soul searching, no common ground can be found? Then this situation can develop: Two can walk together only if they agree to walk together. They do not need to agree on anything other than to walk together and not do anything that would interfere with their walking together. Think about it! Two

very different individuals can walk down the sidewalk of endeavor together and be in utter disagreement on everything else. Mutual respect and a desire for mutual success will guarantee good results.

Frederick Steinbron

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